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A worthy cause: Glaze transforms her home to accommodate cancer retreats

True philanthropy is at work here in Killington as town resident Taylor Glaze offers her home as a site for a new cancer retreat center, Forest Moon.

Glaze is a cancer survivor herself, and was so moved by her experience at her first Forest Moon retreat last August that she decided to join the cause. Glaze, now retired, says everything came together at the right time. "After [my retreat] was over, I decided I needed to do something to help others have this wonderful experience that I had," she said, "I want to be here to help and to serve."

Forest Moon is a non-profit organization based in Brattleboro, Vt. founded in 2004 by cancer survivors Cindy and Phil Blood of Gilford, Vt. It's mission is to provide affordable, activity-based support programs to improve the well being of cancer survivors and their loved ones in New England.

Retreat workshops offered at Forest Moon sites help cancer survivors process emotional, physical, spiritual and psychological traumas associated with their cancer. Glaze explains that workshops are intended to help cancer survivors readjust after the last chemotherapy session. "It is such a catharsis and a relief to be in the company of other people who get it," she says.

Weekend sessions involve art, sculpture, collage and dance, as well as therapeutic time talking and getting to know other participants and their similar struggles. It is designed to offer a supportive community for individuals whose lives have changed dramatically, often leaving them feeling lonely and unsure of the next step.

Glaze decided to turn her home into a retreat center for Forest Moon because she feels that "This is really the next step we need in this whole cancer issue," she said. "You need to help the survivors readjust." Glaze recalls the healing process of "being surrounded by absolute strangers, very well trained and professional facilitators, in a very calm setting, and things that you would never even want to tell your family or your children-because you don't want to burden them-you wind up discussing. It is such a catharsis."
Glaze has not only donated the space, but also her services as a chef and a nutrition expert for the retreats.

The spacious post and beam home was built for Glaze and her husband in 2007 and can accommodate up to 12 guests comfortably. Glaze designed the home herself, including a lofted painting studio, massage room, and small pool used for water exercises. The home will be open for Forest Moon program participants to enjoy, free of cost.

Glaze has had a long love with Killington after living in town for 10 years from 1965 to 1975. While she moved to an avocado ranch in California to raise her three boys, she never forgot Vermont. In 2001, Glaze was lured back to Killington, where she married a long-time friend and life-long Vermonter, Red Glaze. The couple opened a Killington restaurant, Café Toast, which has since become Dominic's Upscale Pizza Joint and is run by her son and daughter-in-law, Nick and Stephanie Chiarella.

While Glaze's home will now provide space for lodging and dining during seminars, most of the programs and projects will occur in a building detached from the house. Affectionately called "the Cupola" after its decorative rooftop "hat," this specially designed building will host the majority of workshops.

The new retreat site is located on Dean Hill Rd, just off the Killington access road, and will host its first retreat session July 21-22 called "One in Eight: The Torso Project." It will be a craft workshop that provides participants the opportunity to make a unique plaster cast of their torso and later decorate it. This process is intended to help breast cancer survivors face issues surrounding body image and provide a forum for discussion and sharing.

All Forest Moon retreat seminars are offered to participants free or at low cost and include lodging, meals, workshops and programs. Each is run by facilitators who are also cancer survivors and are supported by individual donations and grants from charitable organizations.

Glaze hopes to gain enough local aid from the Killington area to support each seminar offered at her home. Among those who've already taken early action, is social worker Jessica Greco of Foley Cancer Center. Greco will be working to spread word of the new center in the area among her contacts and colleagues at Rutland Regional Medical Center's Woman to Woman Cancer Support Group.

Tagged: cancer survivor, Forest Moon